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Why You Should Make Time for Self-Reflection
Do you feel like you are constantly moving from one thing to another on autopilot?
Life is busy, so why would you slow down?
Let me ask you this, how often do you stop to take a moment for self-reflection?
If that is a foreign concept to you then don’t worry, you are not alone.
As human beings in the 21st century, we are trained to not waste a single minute and cross off as many tasks on our to-do list as possible.
Taking the time for self-reflection is crucial and can lead to more peaceful days and a better future for yourself.
Check out why self-reflection is important and why you should make time for it.
It forces you to slow down
Nowadays, everyone is moving at the speed of light.
We are busier and more burnt out than ever, and our worth is often measured by how quickly and efficiently we can accomplish our tasks.
Many people view being as busy as a badge of honor.
Self-reflection helps force you to slow down and live in the present instead of always thinking about the next big thing on your to-do list.
It allows you to learn from your mistakes
It is common to want to fast-forward right past mistakes that are made in your life.
Although you should not dwell on your mistakes, you should reflect on them in order to learn from them.
What was the mistake?
Why was it made?
How could you prevent making the same mistake in the future?
These are all important questions, and asking yourself them could prevent yourself and others from getting hurt in the future.
It ensures that everything you are doing is in alignment with your values
Self-reflection can be a time for you to assess your current situation.
Oftentimes, we get into the flow of our routine without actually evaluating how it works for us.
Do the people in your life serve you well and bring you joy?
Does your work situation fulfill you, support you, and make you happy?
Do you wake up with excitement for the day?
Are you filling your time with activities that encourage your growth, and do you take the time for self-care?
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It is a form of self-care
Speaking of self-care, self-reflection is a form of self-care.
Why?
It is quiet time created by you, for you.
Self-reflection is a way for you to focus on yourself in order to ensure you live the most fulfilling life possible.
It allows you to figure out what you desire in your life and how you are going to obtain these things.
You may come to find that self-reflection can be peaceful and therapeutic.
It can be a time to set new goals and intentions
Perhaps your current goals are not aligned with your values, and you discovered this through self-reflection.
What do you do then?
Come up with some new goals!
Taking the time to reflect on your goals will ensure that they are worthwhile and perfect for you.
You want to figure out why you are actually working towards them, and be sure that the reason makes sense for you.
You can also set new intentions during this time.
How do you want to show up as a significant other, friend, parent, or child?
Reflect on this.
It gives you some time to celebrate yourself and your accomplishments
Do you ever take the time to celebrate your accomplishments, big and small?
If you believe you have nothing to celebrate, think again.
Reflect on the past few months, year, or even a few years.
Surely you have moved some mountains and accomplished some incredible things!
Even if that thing is just making it to where you are now and staying strong through adversity, that is worth celebrating.
You are worthy of celebrating yourself.
Take some time during self-reflection to brag on yourself and celebrate your accomplishments before rushing onto the next thing on your to-do list.
Since this time is just for you, you don’t have to worry about what others will think.
It helps strengthen your intuition
Have you ever heard of the phrase “follow your intuition”?
You probably either live by that phrase or not.
Trusting your intuition takes a whole lot of practice, and self-reflection can be a form of practicing it.
It is actually a muscle that you have to work to strengthen.
One way you can strengthen it is by reflecting on times you went with your gut and it served you well.
Reflect on ways you listen to yourself and how you can work on trusting yourself more.
This will lead to a stronger intuition.
It helps you learn to live in the present
When you are taking the time for self-reflection, you are forced to live in the present.
Sure, you may be assessing situations and circumstances that happened in the past and making goals for the future, but the act of practicing self-reflection helps you learn to be aware.
You will increase your self-awareness and become more mindful of when you are acting in ways that serve you and when you are not.
This also stems from being forced to slow down.
It will help you become the best version of yourself
All of these reasons will snowball into you becoming the best version of yourself.
Self-growth, love, and transformation cannot happen without self-reflection.
Challenge yourself to practice self-reflection frequently.
This can help you grow by learning from your mistakes, reevaluating your circumstances, and dreaming about the future by setting new goals and intentions.
All of this will lead to you consistently moving towards the best version of yourself.
Final Thoughts
Hopefully some of these reasons why you should take time for self-reflection resonated with you and convinced you that it is a crucial tool.
As individuals, we never really arrive.
We are constantly changing, growing, and transforming into better versions of ourselves.
By practicing self-reflection, you will gain more clarity and peace in your life.
Michelle Gagliani
Owner & Founder
Michelle is the Founder of The Balanced CEO and a Holistic Nutritionist + Health Coach. She was born and raised in St.Thomas, U.S.V.I., and is currently living in Austin, TX. When she’s not running this blog and online business, she is cozied up at home watching TV, taking long walks in nature, or trying out new healthy recipes.
I agree. Self-reflection is so important for our growth and well being. Thank you for this!
Thank you Carrie š
Super practical information that I can easily add to my life. Thanks for this.
Glad it provided value to you Anna ā¤ļø
I love using the 5 minute journal. I signed up for your journaling prompts too! Thanks
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This is so true, we get so caught up in the world around us that we lose touch with our own intuition. Great post!
Exactly! Thank you Stephanie!
Love love this post. I think one thing I forget to do is celebrate myself and the goals I have achieved. Need to do better at that!
š„° Thank you Hope! Yes, it helps so much. Celebrate even the smallest achievements.
It is so important to take a moment and reflect! I love your thoughts on taking time to make sure your actions and the people you surround yourself with align with your values.
Thank you Maggie! š